Pgh Lesbian Correspondents

The Researchers Investigating Missing, Murdered, Unclaimed, and Unidentified Trans and Queer Neighbors Around the World

Recently, we launched a mini-series exploring the work of tracking and reporting anti-trans violence. You can read the initial post The Researchers: A Closer Look at the Search for Missing and Murdered Trans and Queer People

I created a Q&A for multiple people involved in this work. I’ve learned so much from them. Also, I realize how most people don’t actually realize what does into this work, in terms of time, resources, emotional labor, and determination.

You can read about the tools at the link above. Here, we want you to read what the researchers themselves have to say.

I work with most of these folx through the Facebook Trans Violence Group. I am grateful for their time and energy to help my readers better understand this complex and difficult work. That being said, please note that I do not necessarily agree with everything they say.

The aspects of this work that the typical person may not understand or see involve several deeply emotional and challenging elements. One of the most significant is the emotional toll it takes on those involved. Engaging with the lives of trans and queer individuals who have been lost, whether through violence or other circumstances, is profoundly impactful. Each case is not just a statistic; it is a life with a story, and learning about the circumstances surrounding each loss can be heart-wrenching.

Your Name: Noah “The Stigma Fighter”

Your Pronouns: He/They

Affilation(s): Transcend Stigma Project (Founder) 

How do you describe your identity? I am transgender and intersex

Please describe your specific involvement in finding and honoring murdered, missing, and unclaimed trans and queer people. 

My specific involvement in finding and honoring murdered, missing, and unclaimed trans and queer people encompasses several key activities aimed at raising awareness, providing updates, and amplifying voices within the community. I actively utilize my platforms, including social media and my TikTok account, to search for and highlight cases of trans and queer lives lost. Through these platforms, I share detailed information about individuals who have gone missing, have been murdered, or remain unclaimed, ensuring that their stories reach a wider audience. I provide regular updates on these cases through my TikTok channel and soon to be substack. This involves not only reporting on new developments but also keeping the community informed about ongoing investigations and efforts to bring justice for the victims. My updates aim to maintain public interest and support for these critical issues. Moreover, I use my platform to boost other voices reporting on the lives that have been lost, missing, and those unclaimed. By amplifying the work of activists, journalists, and organizations dedicated to this cause, I contribute to a collaborative effort to honor and remember trans and queer individuals who have faced violence or neglect. Through these actions, I strive to create a more informed and supportive community that actively participates in seeking justice and recognition for trans and queer people who are often marginalized and overlooked.

What geographic region(s) do you cover? Why? 

I primarily cover the United States in my efforts to find and honor murdered, missing, and unclaimed trans and queer people. This focus is not only due to my residency in the U.S. but also because of the complex and often contradictory nature of the discourse surrounding trans lives in this country. The United States frequently projects an image of inclusivity and concern for trans lives, yet the reality is marked by rising violence and persistent discrimination against trans and queer individuals. This disparity between public statements and actual conditions necessitates rigorous accountability and allyship. By concentrating on the U.S., I aim to spotlight these contradictions and advocate for genuine progress and protection for the trans community.

While acknowledging the strides made towards inclusivity and rights for trans individuals in the U.S., it is also crucial to highlight the ongoing challenges and double standards. My coverage seeks to bring these issues to the forefront, encouraging meaningful dialogue and action to address the violence and injustices that trans and queer people continue to face. Through my work, I aim to hold both society and policymakers accountable, ensuring that the commitment to trans lives is not just a statement but a lived reality, characterized by safety, dignity, and equality for all.

Why is this work important? 

This work is profoundly important because it addresses the gaps in reporting and recognizing the lives of trans and queer individuals who have been lost. Often, the focus is on those who have lost their lives to violence, but it is equally crucial to acknowledge those who have taken their own lives due to the immense pressures and stigmas they face. As a registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor in California, I work exclusively with transgender clients, including youth. In my sessions, a recurring theme is the struggle for safety and the ability to navigate life’s challenges. My clients frequently express concerns about the pervasive stigmas and discrimination they encounter daily. Addressing these issues in a therapeutic setting underscores the necessity of broader societal change. One of the key ways to end stigmas is by sharing stories collectively. Each life is valuable and deserves to be remembered and honored. No life should be lost under any circumstance, and as a society, we have a duty to stand up for those who can no longer speak for themselves. By raising awareness and fostering understanding, we can create a more supportive and inclusive environment for trans and queer individuals. This work also highlights the urgent need for systemic changes to protect and uplift the trans community. It is through these collective efforts that we can hope to end the cycle of violence and marginalization, ensuring that every individual can live with dignity and respect.

My updates aim to maintain public interest and support for these critical issues.

What are some of the challenges you face in your efforts? 

One of the primary challenges I face in my efforts to find, and honor murdered, missing, and unclaimed trans and queer people is disseminating information widely and effectively. Despite living in a country that professes to uplift marginalized voices, the reality often falls short unless one has specific connections or access to influential networks. This double standard makes it exceptionally difficult to ensure that the stories and issues of trans and queer individuals receive the attention they deserve.

Additionally, the algorithms on social media platforms pose a significant obstacle. Recently, my content has been experiencing suppression, making it harder to reach a broader audience. These algorithms can inadvertently stifle important narratives and advocacy efforts, limiting the visibility of critical issues concerning trans and queer communities. These challenges highlight the need for more equitable and transparent systems that genuinely support marginalized voices. Overcoming these barriers requires continuous effort and innovation in how information is shared and amplified, ensuring that every story can be heard and acknowledged.

Tell us about the aspects of this work that the typical person may not understand or see. 

The aspects of this work that the typical person may not understand or see involve several deeply emotional and challenging elements. One of the most significant is the emotional toll it takes on those involved. Engaging with the lives of trans and queer individuals who have been lost, whether through violence or other circumstances, is profoundly impactful. Each case is not just a statistic; it is a life with a story, and learning about the circumstances surrounding each loss can be heart-wrenching. Additionally, the process of communicating with the families, friends, and communities of those who have been lost is often overlooked. These conversations provide crucial insights but are emotionally taxing, as they involve reliving painful memories and experiences. The public might have a superficial understanding of these aspects, but for someone deeply passionate about this topic, especially within our community, it generates a mixture of profound sadness and intense frustration.

Doing this work can ignite a fire within oneself—a drive to fight for justice, awareness, and change. This emotional intensity is why I often encourage others to use their voices unapologetically. It is essential to channel these feelings into advocacy and action, ensuring that the stories of those who can no longer speak for themselves are heard and remembered. Ultimately, the unseen aspects of this work involve a combination of emotional resilience, compassionate communication, and unwavering commitment to justice and recognition for trans and queer individuals. By shedding light on these elements, we can foster a deeper understanding and appreciation for the complexities and significance of this work.

How do you balance the privacy of a grieving family with the needs of the trans and queer communities? 

Balancing the privacy of grieving families with the needs of the trans and queer communities is a delicate and crucial aspect of my work. As a therapist, I am bound by strict confidentiality standards, ensuring that any information shared within a therapeutic context remains private unless explicit consent is provided. When engaging with grieving families, I always seek their consent regarding what details can be shared publicly. This respectful approach ensures that their wishes and boundaries are honored, providing them with the space they need to grieve privately while also allowing for the possibility of public advocacy if they choose.

I use these moments as an opportunity to communicate to my community the importance of unity and collective voice during times of loss. It is essential to recognize and respect the family’s need for privacy while also addressing the broader implications and needs of the trans and queer communities. By sharing only what is permitted, we can still highlight the importance of solidarity and support within our community. Additionally, I incorporate mental health tips and resources into my communications to assist the community in navigating these challenging times. Emphasizing resilience, self-care, and mutual support helps to foster a strong, united front while respecting individual privacy. In summary, by adhering to confidentiality, seeking consent, and providing mental health support, I strive to balance the privacy of grieving families with the broader needs of the trans and queer communities. This approach ensures that we can honor and respect everyone’s journey while advocating for collective strength and resilience.

We speak often about the need to educate the media, law enforcement, and the criminal justice system about anti-trans violence. What institutions would you add to that list and why? 

In addition to the media, law enforcement, and the criminal justice system, there are several other crucial institutions that need to be educated about anti-trans violence:

1. Educational Systems: Schools and universities play a fundamental role in shaping societal attitudes. Educating educators, administrators, and students about trans issues and anti-trans violence is essential for fostering a safe and inclusive environment. Comprehensive education can help reduce bullying and discrimination, promoting acceptance and understanding from a young age.
2. Social Justice Nonprofits: While many nonprofits already work towards equality, there is a need for increased focus on anti-trans violence. These organizations can amplify their advocacy efforts, provide resources and support to affected individuals, and engage in public education campaigns to raise awareness.
3. Policymakers: Legislative bodies and policymakers need thorough education on the realities of anti-trans violence to create and implement effective laws and policies. Understanding the unique challenges faced by the trans community is crucial for drafting legislation that offers genuine protection and support.
4. Mental Health Providers: Mental health professionals are on the front lines of supporting individuals affected by anti-trans violence. Providing these professionals with specialized training on trans issues ensures that they can offer competent, sensitive, and affirming care. This training can also help them identify and address the mental health impacts of such violence more effectively.

Educating these additional institutions is vital because they each have a significant influence on the daily lives of trans individuals. By fostering understanding and allyship across these areas, we can create a more supportive and inclusive society, reducing the prevalence and impact of anti-trans violence. This is also a step to ending stigmas and achieving Liberation. 

What do you say to the person who hesitates to share each post/flyer because it is ‘too sad.’ 

In general, there are conversations that are inherently uncomfortable but necessary. I often frame it like this: Imagine experiencing physical pain. Typically, we address it in one of two ways: by taking a painkiller for temporary relief or by visiting a doctor for a more comprehensive solution. While the painkiller offers only temporary respite, a doctor can provide more lasting relief, albeit sometimes through a process of trial and error. The ultimate goal is to eliminate the pain entirely. In the context of anti-trans violence and the struggles faced by the trans and queer communities, sharing these posts and flyers is akin to seeking the comprehensive solution. It might be uncomfortable and even painful to confront these realities, but it is through this discomfort that we can begin to address and alleviate the underlying issues. By raising awareness and educating others, we are working towards long-term solutions that can bring about real change and healing. Unfortunately, many in our community lack access to adequate support and resources, much like someone unable to see a doctor for their pain. By sharing these messages, we not only honor those who have been lost but also advocate for better support systems and resources for those still struggling. Your voice and action can be part of the solution, helping to create a world where these painful stories become less common. Also, accountability matters, I have come across those who claim they are allies but they won’t share the stories because of this reason. I encourage said people to engage in self reflection and humility. 

Please list any organizations or groups doing this work that people should know about.

https://www.transdoetaskforce.org/ Trans Doe Task Force

What else should I have asked? 

One important question you could have asked is about the importance of being an accomplice in supporting the trans and queer communities. Being an accomplice plays a crucial role in fostering an inclusive and supportive environment for marginalized groups. 

Where can readers follow you on social media?  

https://www.threads.net/@thestigmafighter

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?

https://www.tiktok.com/@transcomrade36/

https://transcendstigma.substack.com

Finally, please list the social media accounts readers can follow to remain informed and share information.

Here are some links to some awesome trans creators

Jynx deLygh aka Jynx the wondergirl she has talked about lives being lost but she does talk more about legislation, positive content, and debunks myths https://www.tiktok.com/@jynx_the_wonder_girl?

Anna Deshawn covers quite a bit when it comes to trans lives https://www.tiktok.com/@annadeshawn?

 The Transgender Law Center has a section on lives lost https://transgenderlawcenter.org/regional-reports/

Is there anything else you’d like to add?  No response.

Thank you, Noah!

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