This is ‘My List of Desires’ instead of ‘My Bucket List’ Because Desire is a Better Focus Than Death

A list?


So we open up a quarrel
Between the present and the past
We only sacrifice the future
It’s the bitterness that lasts


So don’t yield to the fortunes
You sometimes see as fate
It may have a new perspective
On a different day
And if you don’t give up, and don’t give in
You may just be okay

Living Years, Mike & The Mechanics

I’m not planning on kicking the bucket soon. However, I have decided to get a jump start on all those things I’ve wanted to do. This past year has reminded me that the living years fly by. I’m okay. Maybe ‘just’ okay some days, but better than okay on others.

My friend recently bought me a 2025 cat calendar to remind me to look ahead with anticipation. I hung it next to my current year’s calendar near my bed.

This is a good reminder to stay focused on the right-now while remaining confident of a future.

Some are one-time things. Other are new regular routines. None are about impending death. They are about life!

Frolic in a sunflower field

Stick with a morning routine

Trivia night

Karaoke (never tried it)

Psychiatric service dog

Scotland

A different beach than Nags Head

Honorary master’s degree from LSU to compensate for when I dropped out and ran away to Western Kentucky to be a missionary. I think my 20 years of blogging is an honorary thesis, right?

Invited to be an adjunct. Will I do it? Hmm … anybody’s guess. *No, Ijust want to be asked.

Invited to participate in a Pittsburgh parade. In a car. or a truck, waving.

Learn to swim properly. Minimal flailing.

Fly first class.

Ride in a private boat on Pittsburgh rivers.

Tour Rachel Carson’s Homestead

Canada

Take voice lessons just in case I can sing. A little bit.

Play more Scrabble.

Veranda.

Own a Subaru. The official car of lesbians.

Go back to California and forgive myself for failing to go to the ocean in 2015.

Finish cleaning out the attic

Tattoo.

Custom fitted formal wear. With updo.

More throw pillows!

Full day spa treatment maybe with an overnight stay. Wrapped, massaged, cleansed, the whole thing. With a glass of champagne and a cucumber sandwich.

Finish all the books piled up in my room right now on September 24, 2024.

Guest on MSNBC.

Helicopter ride for pleasure.

Visit the places in America where my people have been.

Find a signature cocktail.

Ask the questions I’ve held back.

Invite to the WH Pride Reception

Dance. Keep dancing.

************************************************

We need your help to save the blog.

For 18+ years,  snowflakes, social justice warriors, and the politically correct have built this blog.

Follow us on Twitter @Pghlesbian24 and Instagram @Pghlesbian

We need your ongoing support to maintain this archive and continue the work. Please consider becoming a patron of this blog with a recurring monthly donation or make a one-time donation.       This post and/or others may contain affiliate links. Your purchase through these links support our work. You are under no obligation to make a purchase.


Discover more from Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.