It was 1990. I was a college sophomore in Northern Virginia, learning about environmental issues from my friend, George Neighbors.
Earth Day was my first activist event. The week before, George took a group of us out with wheat paste to flyer Alexandria also known as Old Towne.
It was pretty tame, but it felt big and exciting to this Pittsburgh girl. Exhilarating is the best word, like I had unlocked this amazing aspect of my capacity to change the world.
On Earth Day proper, we headed into DC and found a spot near the reflecting pool. We waded, we listened, we sunbathed. I have photos somewhere. And I still have this

I’ve carried it around ever since. There was a green ribbon attached, but it wore away.
That day changed me. It was a lot of fun. But it also connected me to my life’s work. I got really involved on community clean ups and recycling efforts. Environmental activism wasn’t my passion per se so much as activism.
Another fun experience that night was heading over to a small club to see River Phoenix’s band. I went with Andrea and Karin. For some reason I thought it was cool to wear my belt backwards. Most of the Phoenix family was there. We all danced together. It was really nice, a moment when we connected with this famous family over a shared passion.
I felt so much possibility. I love that memory.
I lost touch with George Neighbors and Andrea Grimaldi. And the Phoenix family. But I remain in touch with Karin and Kendra.
It is funny how mementos follow us. This one has been with me for 35 years, my whole adult life.
Earth Day should be everyday.
It changed my life.
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