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View Article  Two Innocent Men and a Gay Basher: 60 Minutes Lifts Up the Poor Persecuted White Men

Tonight, Lesley Stahl "sat down" with the three former Duke University lacrosse players who were not charged with the rape of a woman who had been hired as an exotic dancer by their team.  Surely, you've heard of it.

Two of the three men came across as having learned some painful lessons from the year long ordeal of being suspect for a vile crime they did not commit AND having at least some compassion for their accuser. 

However, the third young man -- a Mr. Colin Finnerty -- ah, he's a fine example of white privilege at its very worst.  He's comes across as a vile human being who has absorbed no sense of identity with others who are wrongly accused EVERY SINGLE DAY in this country.

Did I mention he's a convicted gay basher?  Yes, Mr. Finnerty was convicted of attacking two men he perceived as being gay.  They weren't in fact gay. He just thought they acted gay.  So, naturally, he taunted them and then kicked and punched them. 

The rogue district attorney who pursued the rape case in the face of overwhelming evidence of the men's innocence issued an apology.  Finnerty won't accept it.

Collin Finnerty said, ?Too little, too late.?

"This has been a year of decision after decision after decision to keep doing the wrong thing. He's had so much time to say he?s sorry over the last year. And now he comes the day after we're exonerated. I don't think anyone's going to feel better after that apology," Finnerty says.

Finnerty had the opportunity during the course of the evening when he beat up two men for seeming gay.  With every taunt, with every punch and kick he made decision after decision to pummel two human beings for the apparent sin of being gay.  At what point should his victims accept his apology? 

Then there's this ...

"Let's say you had the opportunity now to look him in the eye. What would you say to him?" Stahl asks Finnerty.

"Why? Why? I just wish I could just get it answered ? why us?" he says.

Colin, I suspect there are two young men with bruised souls that have the same question for you.  The difference is that 60 Minutes won't put them on the air to discuss how they were victimized by you.  Lesley didn't even contextualize the haughty privilege of the arrogant prick by asking him about the gay bashing.  Instead, she bent over backwards to demonstrate how poor rich white guys suffer so at the hands of other ... well rich white guys.

Cry me a fucking river.  60 Minutes took the glory road on this story.  I was so enraged I could barely finish watching it.  Colin Finnerty beat up two men for appearing gay.  Why doesn't that even fucking register?  Colin Finnerty and his friends hired a woman to perform for them for sexual thrills. She wasn't raped, but she was exploited for their rich white boy thrills. 

There's probably a fine future for Mr. Finnerty in broadcast media -- he can join the shockjock phenomena with real "gay bashing" street cred.  Or perhaps he can become a minister.  So many options, so much privilege.  What's a nice boy to do?

View Article  Who is lesbian comedian Poppy Champlin? PghLesbian will have the scoop ...

I emailed Poppy to ask for an interview and she agreed.  Also, we plan to sit down soon with Lance Friedman, co-chair for Steel City Stonewall Democrats and discuss all the changes since founding board member Scott Safier has moved on to other things (and out of state).  Should be an interesting chat in both cases. 

In other exciting lesbian news, plans are underway for the 2nd Annual Dyke March (I may have said this before) followed by a dyke dance brought to you by Pink Party Productions.  I have to admit I was a little bummed that the post-Pride event will be a street party on Liberty Avenue -- I'll go see Tiffany for the retro-aspect, but it is still inherently a gay men's event.  Thus, I am thrilled to see some queer action happening. 

Maybe we'll sit down with the Dyke March organizers and get a Lesbian Correspondent exclusive.  Anything that involves sitting in a coffee shop and chatting appeals to us ...

View Article  Pittsburgh Participation in Day of Silence

April 18 is the 11th Annual Day of Silence.

The Day of Silence is an annual event held to bring attention to anti-LGBT bullying, harassment and discrimination in schools. Students and teachers nationwide will observe the day in silence to echo the silence that LGBT and ally students face everyday. In it's 11th year, the Day of Silence is one of the largest student-led actions in the country.

Pittsburgh's chapter of GLSEN leads the charge on the student-driven effort to educate and empower their fellow students around LGBT bias in America's schools and the school systems. 

So what happens?  Essentially, participants remain silent that day in solidarity with those who are "silenced" because of their sexual orientation, gender identity or alliance with the LGBT students.  According to the national website, more than half a million students have participated over the past ten years.

Why do we need a Day of Silence?GLSEN?s 2005 National School Climate Survey found that 4 out of 5 LGBT students report verbal, sexual or physical harassment at school and more than 30% report missing at least a day of school in the past month out of fear for their personal safety. The Day of Silence helps bring us closer to making anti-LGBT bullying, harassment and name-calling unacceptable in America?s schools.

The Day of Silence is a call to action. Students can use this day, as well as other GLSEN Days of Action, as a means of achieving an ?ask.? An ask is a very specific action that calls for a change in school policies, climate, and culture to achieve a larger goal of safe schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. Some examples of an ask include: adding sexual orientation and gender identity/expression in your school?s non-discrimination or anti-harassment policy, or training teachers to respond effectively to anti-LGBT bullying, harassment, and name-calling.

Here's a good example of why this day is so important.  Christian-opponents have begun organizing "Days of Truth" to spread their message of gay-intolerance in the schools.  They believe that the learning environment should not respect or protect the rights of all students to pursue an education without harassment or discrimination.  They twist this into a Christianity versus homosexuality situation and have gone to court to force school districts to recognize their free speech and freedom of religion in this context.  The schools are backing down because its a fine line.

What's interesting is the Christo arguement that a Day of Silence impedes their free speech.  Ironic, no? 

Check out the GLSEN website and take a moment on April 18 to contemplate all the ways in which you are silenced. 

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