Officer O'Hara called the police bureau's decision to even hold a hearing a "miscarriage of justice."
"This should be tried in the courts," said Officer O'Hara. He said
the city's decision to act quickly was based on pressure from women's
groups. "This was in his private life and has nothing to do with his
professional life."
The FOP is actually whining about someone else putting "pressure" on politicians. Excuse me while I ROTFLMAO.
Except. It isn't funny.
Officer O'Hara is supposed to be an advocate for women in their most vulnerable moments. Half of the people he pledges to protect and serve are female. That's a little sobering when you consider he hasn't uttered a single word denouncing domestic abuse.
I understand that he has Hlavac's back to protect, but who is protecting all the rest of us?
I shudder to think of Sgt Hlavac or Officer O'Hara responding to a call involving same sex partner abuse.
I can't remember exactly when I started reading Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents but it couldn't have been too long after its inception because I had already added it to 2 Political Junkies' blogroll just a little over three months from its birth.
So why did we choose to add a blog that centered on LGBT issues to our very political blogroll on our very political blog?
Well, aside from PLG being an excellent blog overall, aside from it often covering political issues, and aside from being happy to include a blog with a perspective that was other than straight white male, there was the Canary in the Coal Mine consideration. From Wikipedia:
The classic example of animals serving as sentinels is the canary in the coal mine. Well into the 20th century, coal miners in the United Kingdom and the United States brought canaries into coal mines as an early-warning signal for toxic gases including methane and carbon monoxide. The birds, being more sensitive, would become sick before the miners, who would then have a chance to escape or put on protective respirators.
We sometimes hear complaints on Democratic blogs about single issue voters -- why can't the feminists just shut up about abortion when health care reform is at stake? Or, why get all worked up over then candidate Obama including gospel singer and preacher Donnie "Homosexuality is a choice that can be cured" McClurkin for a statewide tour when Obama would so obviously be so much better for gays (and everyone else) than John McCain?
But, I say if you really want to know how progressive a candidate will be -- if you want to know if you can truly trust them (on any issue) -- there's no better way than to find out just how gay friendly they are.
But the canary test (their stand on LGBT issues) is really most useful when its used on Democrats/Liberals. Take John Edwards. During the presidential primaries he looked pretty good. Great on economic issues with his "Two Americas" meme, but I could never really warm up to the guy and could never really put my finger on why. One thing I knew that made me feel creepy about him was his statement that he was uncomfortable around gays. Not only don't I get that in this day and age, I really didn't get his need to say it. It seems especially grotesque to me now that he had concerns about others' sex lives while he was having his own underground affair. My mistrust in him was validated when it came out that he had the exceedingly bad judgement to think that he could hide an affair while running for the highest office in the land -- a secret that would have imploded any Dem chance of winning in 2008 if he had been the nominee.
President Obama as a ?fierce advocate for gay and lesbian Americans"? If the McClurkin incident didn't tip you off, his picking Prop. 8 proponent Rick Warren to deliver the invocation at his inauguration was telegraphing his lack of urgency in, say, addressing Don't Ask Don't Tell...or in my mind his less than fierce advocacy for, say, getting the the best we could have in Health Care Reform.
Couple a Democratic politician's stand on gay rights with their take on choice for women's reproductive rights and if they're negative on both you may as well stick a big, fat R beside their name because you know that they can't be trusted not to throw someone or something else you care about under the bus. It's just a matter of time...or money.
Or to put it another way, if you can trust someone to look out for the one group left who it's perfectly legal to discriminate against; if you can trust someone to risk condemnation from their own religious leaders on behalf of basic fairness for a group that they aren't a member of, well then, baby, you can trust them to get most things right -- to fight for us all -- immigrant, feminist, environmentalist, atheist, etc., and you get my support.
And, there's no better local blog to find out the real ins and outs of where a politician stands on LGBT issues than Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents. They're a daily read for me and many others.
Congratulations on four years of blogging and thanks for keeping us all in the loop!
With no irony, I believe that Maria is my hero. I loved her from the moment I stumbled across the junkies. We began an IM chat and soon became friends in real life. She's one of the smartest bloggers in this region and certainly among the most creative. I feel an undeniable twinge of pleasure when she links to a post of mine AND always confident that she has our backs on LGBTQ issues.
It is always exciting to celebrate a bogiversary, and I want to say congratulations to Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents for all the fine work done! I am humbled by the offer to write a guest blog, and I want to write about a topic, I know is of importance to Sue Kerr and add my spin on it: The need to increase gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer voices in the blogosphere.
It shouldn?t be news to anyone that voices of out GLBTQ people are not common in many traditional media, outside of the gay papers and magazines. That has been changing over time, with the inclusion of folks like Rachel Maddow, Ellen Degeneres, and Michaelangelo Signorele, but even as out voices grow, they are still too few and can not represent the vast diversity of the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer communities. In fact, it could be argued (although that isn?t my purpose today) that one reason that so many of us have been so invisible to the mainstream for so long is because there have been enough voices, nor the diversity of voices needed. The blogoshpere offers a solution to that problem, since anyone can begin a blog and share their ideas and opinions quickly and easily.
A blog is, first and foremost, a dialogue between the person writing and those reading and commenting, and dialogue is something we have far too little of, especially given the huge tasks before us when it comes to the struggle for equality. By adding dialogues, or voices to the growing number of dialogues, two things happen. We do a better job of representing the wide diversity of the GLBTQ community more than ever before, and we provide an opportunity for readers to broaden their understandings of the ideas and issues being discussed.
Blogging has a few other real advantages too. For the blogger, it offers a method to refine your ideas and thinking. The more I blog, the more I realize how I feel about issues, and why I feel the way that I do. It prompts me to ask questions and consider alternative ideas and weigh the various sides of an issue, and I leave the process smarter or better informed,, than when I started. It also allows a person to feel heard by others. Too many of us have often felt ignored or silenced, and we are angry about that. Once we have an outlet for our voice, we stop being so angry about being silenced, and we filter those emotions towards creating change. Blogging is also a great way to increase the visibility of the GLBTQ communities. It becomes harder for our opponents and decision makers to ignore us when our voices are louder and more plentiful.
On the other hand, simply adding voices doesn?t in and of itself create change. More and move voices can also simply produce more noise, so it is critical that there is listening, reply, and then thoughtful action. Adding voices is simply the beginning and not the end goal itself.
I?ve heard people claim that they have nothing worth writing about, but in reality, it is precisely these voices and experiences that we need to see out in the blogosphere. Real people, with real ideas, about how they live their daily lives and the issues and ideas that are important to them.
Thomas blogs at http://thomascwaters.com/ covering a range of LGBT issues. We met sometime last spring through mutual advocacy efforts; Thomas is a tireless advocate for the community and has been involved in multiple LGBT projects. His nuanced suggestions for using social media to engage are worth rereading.
Congratulations to the Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents blog for a trail blazing fourth year anniversary on the Pittsburgh blogosphere! I am humbled and truly honored to provide my perspective on Sue Kerr and her blog's dramatic impact on our community and our continued battle for greater equality.
Many of you may know me as the Independent candidate for Mayor of the City of Pittsburgh who had the recent honor of standing up to lead this great City. One of the issues I championed during the election was the need to provide stronger leadership on issues of importance to the LGBT community, to make our City more just, open and inclusive.
As a fellow lifelong Pittsburgher and advocate for LGBT rights, I wonder where we would be in Pittsburgh without Sue Kerr and her lead on efforts to call attention to LGBT issues, which are often ignored by mainstream media outlets.
I first met Sue during our collective efforts to pass the historic anti-discrimination legislation on Allegheny County Council, sponsored by Councilwoman Amanda Green to extend equal protection to LGBT persons across the county. When asked to speak in favor of the ordinance, I was honored to do so. For those watching that debate, note that this was a similar ordinance to what Harvey Milk was advocating for on San Francisco City Council in 1978 and what ultimately cost him his life. Over 30 years later, we are still fighting these early battles for equality in Southwestern Pennsylvania. Sue's blog coverage of the events leading up to the vote were simply crucial to rallying support in favor of historic passage of the ordinance.
Let's be clear: the legal status quo regarding the treatment of LGBT people represents the last form of legalized discrimination in America. The laws currently on the books in many jurisdictions are simply unjust and represent blatant discrimination. Sue Kerr and other LGBT bloggers give a voice to the movement and provide a forum for open discussion on these matters that simply does not exist elsewhere. In that sense, they truly facilitate the spread of justice in our region and beyond.
And the pursuit of justice has dominated so many decisions in my life: from my decision to go to law school in the first place, to represent victims of domestic violence pro bono, to run for Mayor of the City of Pittsburgh, to stand with Sue and other friends in support of LGBT rights.
On top of that, there are so many LGBT people I know and love have suffered as a result of the unjust treatment under current law.
One of the happiest days of my life was when I stood with one of my best friends from college on his wedding day, when he married his best friend and husband. I was there for him while he was going through the coming out process, his fear of rejection by family and friends, his self-denial. I remember when he came out to his father on a long car trip, and his dad held his hand from the front seat the rest of the ride. I saw the happiness that enveloped his life when he embraced who he was and married the love of his life. The only shame was, at the time in the late 1990s before marriage equality began to arrive in the United States, we had to travel hundreds of miles to Toronto for the wedding ceremony.
One of the saddest days was when I was working in a law firm in Boston almost 10 years ago with a colleague at the law firm who had spent over 25 years with his life partner. He had just been diagnosed with cancer (he had a long family history, and his father recently died of the disease) and he just got off the phone with his partner and estate lawyer to plan for their affairs. Fighting back tears, he struggled to tell me how difficult it was going to be to arrange the transfer of assets to even let his partner keep living in their house, and how married heterosexual people have all this as a basic right. I thought at the time, how unjust is it that a man who built a whole life with his partner is struggling to get the legal protection that two teenagers can get in one night in Las Vegas.
What we're fighting for is justice and basic human rights, not any special treatment. On the marriage equality front, this is not about destroying heterosexual marriage, but simply about expanding the blessings of those institutions to others who deserve the same protection. I am a practicing Roman Catholic, and I believe my faith informs me to seek out and eradicate injustice in the world and fight for those who are being discriminated against.
In my view, when it comes to the battles for LGBT equality, we stand at the same crossroads we faced during the civil rights movement in the 1960s. Just as then, change will never come unless we continue to fight for change.
The efforts of Sue Kerr and the Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents blog will be as critical to the success of our current LGBT movement as the marches on Selma were then. While times have changed and our methods are now cyber, we have the same purpose now as we did then: to continue our fight for equality and keep this nation dedicated to its creed of liberty and justice for all.
Sue, keep up the great work! I'm honored to stand with you.
I promised I wouldn't edit, but I do have to share an amusing tale. My first encounter with Kevin was at the January 10, 2009 LGBT Advocacy Rally . He was in the back of the crowd wearing a long dark coat and looking suspiciously clean cut. We discussed who this guy might be and decided he was probably an operative for the right wing. Then he introduced himself, reminded me he had run for County Council and said he supported gay marriage! I remained skeptical even whilst Kevin showed up again and again. We met for coffee one summer afternoon and had a conversation that really touched my heart in a way that few interactions with politicians have done. We also had a good laugh when I reminded him that I thought he was a spy infiltrating the gay community. Ah ... now I can resume being completely embarrassed at being compared to a civil rights march. I said I wouldn't edit, I said I wouldn't edit.
